IT MUST BE TAKEN INTO ACCOUNT IN THE UPBRINGING OF THE CHILD...

Constantly criticized children are very closed, withdrawn, insecure. Such children do not solve every case correctly or incorrectly, but" what the country-people say". Make decisions on your own, without being able to do what you want. Because the core is burned by thinking about what others are saying.
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When an insecure child grows up, it seems to him that he is wearing a mask on his face. After all, when something is done to him, he says: "Go straight, otherwise you will be bullied", "don't do anything stupid, you will become a bad child", "wash your face with your hands, what you see will think". Such education is the biggest obstacle to a child's self-knowledge. When he grows up, he will remain "half human".
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❕ Constantly being in a state of alcoholic intoxication, the child becomes one of those who do not let the dust in themselves. He tries not to talk until he gets his way. Because such people have an internal psychological defense and they try to justify themselves. Since adults do not allow him to make mistakes in childhood, he cannot admit his shortcomings even in adulthood.
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Not finding the family good, warmth, the child is looking for an opportunity to escape from there. For example, goes to study far away, in a hurry to get married quickly. So it looks for an environment that supports itself.